Use zmq-anyio #2732

Job	Run time
Test Lint	1m 5s
check_release	1m 44s
link_check	3m 28s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	14m 39s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	4m 2s
Make SDist	19s
test_docs	42s
Test Minimum Versions	14m 39s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	3m 8s
Test Prereleases	2m 39s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	3m 36s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	14m 39s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	14m 40s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	5m 49s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	14m 38s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	6m 3s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 25s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 55s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	2m 47s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	2m 53s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	2m 54s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 31s
coverage	1s
tests_check	2s
	2h 4m 18s

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